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How to Design a Custom Headstone

How to Design a Custom Headstone

Learning how to design a custom headstone begins with understanding the elements that create a meaningful memorial. Our expert stonemasons guide you through each decision, from selecting the perfect stone material to crafting personalised inscriptions and artwork. Whether you envision a traditional design or contemporary tribute, we’ll help you create a lasting memorial that honours your loved one whilst meeting all cemetery requirements. Our professional guidance ensures your custom headstone perfectly reflects cherished memories.

If you’ve recently lost a loved one, you might find solace in this difficult time by focusing on ways to honour their memory, such as designing a custom headstone. A memorial offers a quiet place where you can reflect and remember your loved one, so it’s important to choose one that appropriately pays tribute and captures their spirit.

Designing a headstone is a big responsibility and you might be feeling a bit overwhelmed by the choices available, especially if this is the first major loss you’ve experienced. To help you through this process, the team at Artisan Memorials has written this guide on how to design a custom headstone.

how to design a custom headstone

Where will it be placed?

When designing a headstone, it’s best to consider where it will be installed and check if the cemetery in question has any specific rules. If your loved one is being laid to rest in a churchyard, their headstone may have to comply with certain regulations; often, only religious inscriptions and imagery will be allowed.

Both religious and non-religious burial grounds will usually have restrictions on the materials that a headstone can be made from; for safety reasons, most cemeteries will only permit stone headstones and won’t allow memorials made from plastic or acrylic resin. If you need more information on headstone regulations, why not check out this guide we’ve written on the subject?

Choose a size

Would you prefer a flat headstone for something more understated? Or would the additional space that a kerb memorial offers be a better option for your loved one?

Naturally, the size of a headstone has an impact on the design, as smaller headstones won’t be able to accommodate anything too intricate. You’ll also have to consider who the headstone is for. Is it for one person, or will it be a companion or family headstone that commemorates multiple people?

Select a shape

Once you’ve established how big the headstone needs to be, you’ll then be able to choose a shape. The options are seemingly endless, but some of the most popular headstone shapes include:

Tudor arc
Square top
Check top
Peon top
Ogee top
Serpentine top
Half-round headstone

However, through proper collaboration with a trusted stonemason like the experts at Artisan Memorials, you’re not limited by traditional shapes and you can craft virtually any design of your choosing.

Decide on a material

As we’ve mentioned above, most cemeteries will stipulate that all headstones must be made from stone. While you might think that simplifies your decision, there are numerous types of stone to choose between.

Here at Artisan Memorials, we ensure that all of our stone is robust enough to cope with the British weather so that durability doesn’t have to be a concern. This means that your choice mainly comes down to how you’d like the headstone to look. Nabresina and Portland limestone are perfect for those who’d prefer something paler, while Yorkshire sandstone is a warmer, mid-toned alternative. Slate is also a popular choice and is available in a range of darker colours.

Craft an inscription

The inscription is arguably the most important part of any headstone as it conveys a lasting message for future generations.

You’ll need the essential information, such as the full name and date of birth of the deceased; however, a more personal epitaph could also be included. This could be anything from song lyrics and poetry to bible verses – whatever you feel best encapsulates your loved one. Imagery can also be included, and popular motifs include angels, butterflies and crosses. If you need inspiration on what to write on a headstone, check out our previous blog on the matter.

Our process

Here at Artisan Memorials, our team is backed by years of experience and is here to help you through this challenging time. We’ll start with a consultation, where we’ll discuss your loved one and how best to honour them. All of our headstones are entirely bespoke, so this is your chance to make any unique requests. Our experts will go away and create a series of designs so that you can view a range of options, before working closely with you to finalise a design. Then, we’ll order the stone from the quarry and our skilled stonemason will set to work, meticulously V-carving the design.

Artisan Memorials provide quality headstones and gravestones to customers in the following areas, Kent, Ashford, Maidstone, Tunbridge Wells, London, St Albans, Hemel Hempstead and Watford. Contact us for a free quick quote.

We work all over the UK, offering the complete service, from design to installation

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What Our Customers Are Saying:

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Liz Bodycote
26 October 2026
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Creating a memorial for my parents has been a heartwarming experience with Artisan Memorials. From first enquiry through the design process and the administrative tasks around it, the service from David and Megan has been exceptionally human! The craftsmanship of the memorial has been a joy to behold and communication at all stages second to none. Thank you to all the team at Artisan Memorials for making this such a welcome customer experience.
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Holly Pearce
23 October 2026
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The artisan memorials team and particularly Megan were absolutely fantastic with our very fussy needs from start to finish. They really helped make what is an incredibly difficult time all the much easier with patience and understanding, nothing was too much trouble. From searching for 'just the right stone' to advocating on our behalf with our local council, Megan was just the person we needed, and Mark did an absolutely amazing job on the carving and preparation. As much as we hope to never have to need them again, if we do need another memorial, we will be coming back to them without a second thought.
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Nadia Abrar
21 October 2026
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I honestly cannot recommend this memorial company enough. The communication throughout the whole process was exceptional, and the care, support and service they provided made what can be a very difficult and emotional journey so much easier. The headstone has turned out absolutely beautiful, exactly as I had imagined it, and I couldn’t be happier with the final result. I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend to anyone looking for a memorial for their loved one.
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Scott Walker
21 October 2026
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Exceptionally good in every respect. Delivered beyond my expectations, and were not only incredibly helpful with suggestions with stone type and design, they communicated perfectly, updating with photos. They managed the entire process seamlessly, dealing with the church and the council. Nothing was too much trouble. Despite a short window, they delivered and fitted my grandmother's stone in time.
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Bobbie Chatt
19 October 2026
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I can't say enough good things about Artisan! They made a tricky time and decisions so much easier, were communicative at every stage and create beautiful designs, working with you to ensure you're fully happy with the results. Megan, who is the main point of contact, is incredible and Mark, David, Marcello and the team are second to none. A real family business that focuses on your every need. Thank you so much!
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Jenny Life
14 September 2026
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Artisan Memorials were so kind and helpful when we needed a headstone for our parents' grave. Megan and the team were incredibly patient in helping us come up with a final design and communication was excellent. We really are very pleased with the finished headstone which is unique and beautiful.
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melanie sparks
9 September 2026
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Artisan Memorials were so very professional yet very friendly . Communication was excellent and attention to detail amazing . The finished memorial was something that I know my late husband would have loved . Thank you team !
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Penelope Lyden
2 September 2026
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I cannot express enough my gratitude to the whole team at Artisan. It has taken me over a decade to finally get a headstone for my loved one’s grave. I am so glad I found Artisan, they absolutely understood what I wanted. They were patience personified as the family discussed minute details of wording, typeface and layout. Their expertise, enthusiasm and craftsmanship was so uplifting during an emotional journey. Thankyou.
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Black Fire
30 August 2026
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Good experience and pleased with the outcome. I would recommend for whatever faith you have, if you want reasonably pricing and professional work.
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Richard Davies
26 August 2026
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A wonderful business to deal with. Fantastic communication and one excellent product. It looks amazing and well crafted. Megan and the others were super helpful and were always on hand to answer any questions. Wouldn’t hesitate to recommend them. A really lovely company to do business with. Richard
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